CAUTION -to future horse owners
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CAUTION --to future horse owners. (forgive me --this may need editing.  I am trying to get the pages started for you)

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1.)  What do 'you' look for in a horse?

2.)  What do 'you' want in a horse?

3.)  What draws your attention when looking at a horse?

4.)  What 'abilities' are you looking for in a horse?

5.)  What do you actually 'need' in and from a horse?

6.)  Do you know 'where' you are going to look for a horse?

7.)  Do you need or want a healthy, (physically) 'sound' horse?

8.)  Do you want a  (mentally) 'safe and sensible' horse? Know the background of the people who raised the horse, if you can find that information.  Look at the other horses, and how they are handled.  Do the horses look happy?  Or, do they have a look of void, in their eyes, starring, and looking straight ahead.  This will tell you that that horse has had some emotional or physical abuse.  Look into the eyes of the horse, to 'hear their story'.  If you are clam, and wait long enough, a horse that needs to be 'heard' may turn their eyes to you to look 'into' you, to test whether you might understand them.  Horses have their own language, and can become shy or overwhelmed by improper handling.  I have seen many a horse that is crying for just a little kindness.  Take the time to study the eyes of the horse, just as you would study the eyes of your friends or not so good friends.  Can you see any similarity?

9.)  Would you like a horse that is well 'trained'? Or, would you prefer having a 'natural' horse, that can teach you something, if you have the patience to learn from them.  (see our 'Soft Touch' Natural Horsemanship Programs)  A 'trained horse will do what they are taught, and it is not always what you would expect.  A trained horse can slide to a stop, if you 'step onto the stirrup'.  They can trot at a 'whistle' -with one short blow.  A canter at a long whistle blow, etc etc.  If you ride a 'trained horse, you better know what they are trained to do.  A trained horse might have difficulty doing anything other than what they have been trained to do.  They would have been 'corrected' --perhaps harshly, if they did anything other than what they were being trained to do.  Do you want to ride a horse that has been 'trained' and/or physically 'manipulated' so they carry their head below their chest, as in 'western pleasure'?  What a shame that this horse can not even look straight ahead.  Would you want to ride a horse that has been trained to 'get on the bit' so the rider has to hold them 'tight' to keep them in a 'frame, meaning riding squarely?  What happens when you drop the reins of a horse that is 'on the bit'?  KNOW these answers before purchasing a horse.  A 'natural horse' can think for themselves, and for you, if you get into trouble.  If you treat a horse with 'natural respect' rather than the human 'expectations' of training, you may find that your horse will better take care of you, but know that when a horse 'feels good' they can get playful or rowdy.  Know your horses.  Get some real experience before purchasing any horse.

10.)  Do you want or need a 'wise' older horse or a young inexperienced one?  Know if you desire a pleasure horse or one that can scoot.  A western roping horse or cow horse is not for beginners!  Know what type of horse you are looking at before even trying them.  Have someone else ride first.  Ask that rider to kick the sides of the horse and cluck, to see what the horse will do.  Do they stop easily, or does the rider have to pull real hard to stop? #1. an abused horse responds to what they have been taught.  #2. a 'game' horse may like to play rough.)  Just because a horse is 12-15 yrs of age does not mean they are quiet.  How a horse has been brought up will reveal what they remember, and how they behave.  If you do have some 'real' experience, and know how to work with a younger horse, then you can see that your own horse will never be abused. (see our 'Soft Touch' programs) 

11.)  Do you want a 'young' horse to grow up with? Be honest with yourself.  What experience do you have?  Have you been working with or riding a horse that is older and sensible?  If so, you do not have the experience to own a very young horse.  Do you know what a young horse can do to you?  Rear, kick, buck, sprint away from you then kick up at your head!  You can really get hurt, without the proper experience.  DO NOT purchase a young horse for your young child!  This is an accident waiting to happen.  Get some 'real' experience handling some tougher horses, before considering a young horse.  And, be careful to not overfeed them --if you do get a young horse and have little experience.  Feeding is a very delicate issue.  If you do not feed them well, they will not grow well.  If you DO feed them well, you are creating a problem, as they will have too much energy to easliy handle.  they could get you hurt. Make wise decisions.

12.)  Do you 'need' someone to help you with your purchase?  Find someone who has years of experience, but first look at what type of experience do they have?  If you are looking for a family horse, do not get a horseman who is 'training' oriented.  They may just look at the 'mechanics' of the horse, to see if they are obedient or not --rather than looking at the personality.  Know 'who' you get to help you.  Perhaps find someone that works with horses the way you would like to, and ask them for help.  Know that people in the horse business, usually want to make a sale, and get their percentage.  This is a known fact with the owners as well.  If that agent sells a horse for the owner, the owner gives that agent a fee.  Be sure that who is working for YOU --is JUST working for you!  Also, be sure that you can just stop in to see the horse you are interested in at any respectable time.  You want to be sure that there is no difference in the behavior.  Be sure to get the actual owner to ride the horse first!  get them to go places that a horse may spook.  Ask them to walk, turn trot and canter or jump if necessary.  Pick something unusual that they could sump over to see how much 'sense' the horse has.  Can the horse be ridden bareback, with only a halter and a shank?  If the horse will do all the above with just a halter, this is a very nice horse, especially if they 'stop --if you are about to fall.  Make careful decisions.  It is a known fact that some dealers will tranquilize a horse if someone is coming to look at a horse.  Have the option to return the horse within 10 days --IF they do not work out.  You may find a lameness that has been covered up or you may find that this horse is scared to death.  Tranquilizers cover this up.  It is best -when you are real serious about purchasing a horse to have a good veterinarian check the horse over, and take the necessary tests etc.  What about the vaccinations the horse has been given.  Check all this out carefully.

13.)  Who do you get for advise when purchasing a horse?  Find someone who really likes horses for who they are as individuals, not as a breed.  According to what you want in a horse, you will need to find a 'real horseman' --not just a trainer.  There is a difference.

14.)  Do you just want to help a horse that has been abused?  This can be very rewarding. It can also be very expensive.  If you just want to help a horse by turning them out on a good pasture so they can live out their lives, (worming, grain, and blacksmith --as needed etc.) --then God Bless you.  There are many horses that are lined up, going to the 'killers' --that do not deserve being there --not that any do.  Life can be cruel, and people have to just turn away at times when there is no other option.  Sorrowfully, many good horses are sold to the killers for the 'fast buck' to pay bills etc., or because they do not have the time to show the horse to new prospects, who could purchase the horse.  Shamefully, good horses die a cruel death, because there are not enough people looking to own horses.  It is a mortal sin (to me) that horses are 'traded in' or sold, because they are too old, or they can not serve the owners as they did in their younger years.  Older horses make the best companions for kids, and therapeutic programs, and they can be the safest, wisest horses to keep.  (I dislike the term 'own' because that is disrespectful.  We 'own' nothing in this life, as we must all leave what is 'temporarily ours' --one day.) 

15.)  What do I do when I can not keep the horse any longer?  Try to find someone who will purchase the horse.  You will get some of your expense.  I highly recommend that you investigate the new owner --before signing the agreement.  DO NOT believe everyone, that they have a child who would love that horse, and they can not afford to pay much.  They may be playing on your sympathy.  They then pack up the horse and take it with a bunch of others to the Monday 'killers sale' and make $100 to $300.00 per horse.  Add it up.  Ten horses at $300.00 a horse, is $3,000.00 a week.  For what?  Deceiving people who have the best interest for their horses.  There are tons of 'dealers' out there that will even hire a youth, and give them $30. per horse.  BE VERY CAREFUL!  Do NOT 'GIVE' your horse away!  Lease that horse, with a signed agreement.  This way, --IF the horse is being abused, you can pick up the horse, and try someone else who is more compassionate. Keep contact with a lessee if they have your horse. Your horse will love seeing you again.  IF you sell that horse, there is NOTHING that you can do.  Humane Societies are not always the best programs.  They CAN help in some cases, but not all! Horses are still considered to be 'stock' --not pets, and this means that they must endure what cattle must go through without legal intervention.  Do we even consider that cattle have personalities like horses?  If we saw those animals killed, would we eat meat? Therefore, horse killers have legal rights, because they are 'stock'.  Gruesome and sad facts.   IF you really do love that horse, and you have had them for a long time, and that horse would not understand a new owner, then perhaps the best thing to do --for that horse is to have a vet quietly put the horse down.  They will simply get drowsy, and go down slowly to their knees, and lay down.  They then take their last breath.  IF well done, it is a beautiful ending to a wonderful life.  They will NOT have to face uncertainty or abuse, by being re-sold again and again.  Consider this option!  KNOW that your longtime friend is not going to be abused.   DO THE RIGHT THING!  The dead body is then just a carcass.  It will be hauled away and be disposed.  Your horse has a 'spirit' that will live on.  Know that.  You may see them again one day.  I believe this with all my heart.  PLEASE, be SURE that the veterinarian uses an overdose of tranquilizer, so the horse is NOT coldly 'murdered'.  That is an extremely difficult thing to watch.  Gently have your friend put down, if necessary. You will never regret it. You WILL worry if you do not know where they are or what is happening to them.

16.)  Do you have the finances for the 'unexpected' expenses of owning a horse? Do you know that a horse needs to be wormed at least 3-6 times a year -according to their surroundings, and/or other horses?  Can you give the worm medicine, or will you need a veterinarian to do this for you?  Do you realize the expense of having a veterinarian?  Do you realize that in many areas, a veterinarian will NOT come to you --IF you do not allow them to give the yearly shots they say are needed?  Do you know what shots are needed in your area, like swamp fever, or rabies etc.?  Check with a vet before getting a horse.  A good health check-up is almost a necessity when you have interest in purchasing a horse, and that could cost as much or more than $200.00.   What about blacksmith or farriers?  Do you know if the horse you are looking at has good sound feet?  Or does that horse have feet that will wear down easily?  Will that horse need horseshoes every 6-8 weeks?  Do you know the cost of shoeing and trimming a horse in your area?  Do you know that you can even get a blacksmith/farrier in your area?  If you will be living in a rural area, can you even get a 'good; blacksmith/farrier?  What are the extra fees involved in the extra distance for that blacksmith or farrier to come to you?  What about insurance for your horse, in case there is an accident or death?   Could you afford to have a vet if there was a serious accident>  Could you even get one?  Where is the nearest horse hospital? Do you know that an unexpected accident -like a kick, that chips a bone could cost at least $1,500.00 for an operation?  Do you have that amount set aside, for 'just in case' money?  How much is 'good' hay in your area?  Will you have to get it delivered?  Or will you have to pick it up?  Do you have a truck?  Or will you have to rent one?  How much would that be, and how much hay will it carry?  Do you know how much hay and grain your horse needs, and how much this will cost, monthly, weekly or yearly?  Can you afford to have a horse?

There is much to say, and much that should be said, however, I hope this will open your eyes a bit to make healthier decisions.

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