While driving
cross-country one afternoon, after I had
been working with a client to teach free lounging in a round pen,
`something' clicked, as I recalled a bird, --taking flight. IF that bird
'pressed down' on --`something' to make it `lift' into the air, then, that
same `something' just might be `felt' by the horse, as we `push' the horse
(plus that something) away from us, -with our hands, without even touching
the horse.
We 'our 'pushing'
the air towards the horses hind-quarters, as they move away from that
`something', -and perhaps not ONLY from the `visual' effect on our
movement?
Thinking more on
this, I thought about how we swim in water. Like the bird, we also
push down on the 'water', so we can 'float', --of course, until we learn
how to relax in and 'on' the water (like a bird 'soaring' in and 'on' the
air in the sky...)
Why then can the
bird `fly' in the air and we only `float' on the water? I thought about
the bird's wing shape, then looked at my hands. When fingers are closed,
we can `cut' the water better, just like the bird cuts the air --before
spreading it's wings to press down --on the air. We then press down
on the water to stay afloat.
As soon as we
spread our fingers, we start to sink. Of course our fingers aren't wings
or feathers, however it leaves the question, just what is `it' that is so
different for a bird, a human, and a horse? When the bird spreads
their (fingers, or) feathers, they are slowed down, or they begin their
decent downwards.
While later free
lounging a young horse, I was taken by her 'immediate' response to my
waving my hand to move her forward. It was as though she didn't have time
to 'see' my hand movement.
I questioned the
extreme `sensitivity' of the horse, --and now believe they are more
sensitive than I originally believed.
Our hands make
`waves' in the water. We can see them. The bird must also make
`waves' within the air, ---that WE do not 'see', but the
horse really does `sense', or perhaps feel, by their hair
sensors!
To take these
thoughts farther, I had the privilege of then working with a 3-yr. old
mustang, who would stand to be `touched' by humans, --at that
time.
The DENSITY of the
`air' for a bird, --the water for a human, is now questioned
farther.
IF the last horse I
worked on earlier today showed me such intricate response; --will the wild
horse also show me something?
The same
sensitivity was there, however almost exaggerated. This horse did not
survive in the wild --by NOT responding to his instincts. So I
watched more carefully in my first session with him.
Exaggerated
movement --is distracting --and even fearful to a horse on occasion,
--especially when the work is intent. I insist on no outside distractions
--when we work, for total attention and concentration. My students, horse
or human, --begin to `feel' this after a couple of sessions, that this is
different! There is MORE to this!
To push the air
with my hand --pushed the 'density' of the air towards the horse, making
invisible `waves' in the air. I thought, --'how stupid I am. Of course,
when you `fan' yourself, you 'feel' the breeze against your face. However,
this horse is 15 feet away from me in this round pen.
I am appreciating
the horse's sensitivity even more still, --and I am 'opening' to that same
thing, now becoming more 'aware' of it.
Is there also an
`energy' that they feel, since they are so far away from me? Is it
friction, or fusion of electrical energy, on a minute scale?
We took this wild
horse into a stall. (Actually we opened the door, and he went in on his
own, to get away from me.) I went in, carefully, and stood in the corner
so he could get used to me. The two others (owner & associate) stood
quietly by the doorway --not to show 'entrapment' at the door. We
allowed the visual --for him to be able to leave quickly, if he felt he
must.
I blew down,
several times. (pull air in, and slowly blow out, or down, --while
relaxing the shoulders, and body) I asked the observers to do the same
thing. This `BLOW-DOWN' may now --be MORE than I suspected.. The blow-down
very softly pushes air from our lungs, and may be gentle or soft,
--almost making caressing `waves' that would seem to pacify the
horse. Here, with this wild horse is the best opportunity to experiment
with this.
On blowing down
(all 3 of us, in that stall) the horse 'settled'. When I moved my hand he
was startled and bolted strongly away from me to a corner, hitting the
wall --HARD. I just stool still. Blew down again.
We did this a few
times, after he settled each time. He was questioning me. Me him! I wanted
to express there was nothing to fear. He had been penned before arrival at
this farm, to be given shots and was naturally --severely traumatized by
this. The `touch' of the human hand was a signal to panic for him. This
was his survival instincts, we were watching.
Now, -he was
definitely asking us many questions. The horse was far from
stupid.
We took a lot of
time to just allow the horse to settle. To show `my' trust in him (DO NOT
try this), I knelt down in the center of the stall so he could move around
me if he wished. He stayed still. There were NO `waves' of movement! He
settled even more.
Before leaving,
after about 20 minutes, all three of us entered the stall again. He
accepted. We were walking very softly, so NOT to make `waves'. (Yes, we've
heard this before, and now it makes more sense, doesn't it?) To make this
experiment more valuable, we all stretched our hands toward him, with
fingers relaxed, and just held them there, ---making no waves…
To our amazement
the horse seemed to relax ---even more. We were all about 2 foot from
him. This was an awesome experience. This was enough for his session. We
had gained a lot of ground with his trust, and he gave us a wonderful
lesson in sensitivity.